Melinda Kienhuis

FLOWER ESSENCE & HOLISTIC COUNSELLING

I’m Melinda a passionate, devoted mum of three wonderful grown-up kids (26, 24, and 20) and happily married (well, most of the time!) for over 28 years. Being a mum is my greatest achievement, my biggest challenge, and my deepest blessing. My children are my greatest teachers, and I’m endlessly grateful they chose me to be their Mumma.

Life has been a rollercoaster, but one thing has always remained constant: my desire to be the best version of myself, both as a woman and as a mum. My younger years were marked by anxiety, overwhelm and self-doubt, often hidden behind a smile while I focused on keeping everyone else happy. But when I saw the same struggles beginning to appear in my eldest daughter, I had a moment of awakening, if I wanted to help her…… I had to first help myself

That turning point sparked a lifelong journey of self-discovery and healing. I immersed myself in understanding emotions, anxiety, and the unique needs of children. I studied birth order, flower essences, and essential oils — game changers in shifting my own patterns and supporting my family. This path led me to become a flower essence therapist and holistic counsellor, a role I’ve cherished for well over a decade.

More recently, my passion has deepened into nervous system health, exploring how trauma and life experiences shape our mind, body, and spirit. Understanding the nervous system has been like holding a key, one that unlocks true healing, resilience, and joy. Alongside this, I’ve embraced animistic and sacred practices, opening doorways to deeper connection with the natural world, ancestors, spirit, and the wisdom of the heart and soul. Today, I feel aligned with my purpose, my lineage, and my work, with deep love and gratitude for my teachers, my family, and life itself.

Beyond this work, I also love my job at the local pub, it keeps me grounded in my community and connected with people of all ages and walks of life. I treasure time with my kids, adventures with my hubby, cooking wholesome meals, dancing (with friends or solo in the lounge room!), walking among the trees, delighting in beautiful flowers, traveling, and yes… enjoying a good limoncello spritz.

I believe being a mother is one of the most important roles in the world. Together, we’re not only raising our children…we’re healing generations past and shaping generations to come.

If my story speaks to you and you’re longing to feel more supported, calm, and connected—I’d love to walk beside you on your journey. Together, we’ll create a safe and nurturing space for your healing,  growth and reconnection.

When we can see life through the eyes of the heart, everything changes.

The mum is the anchor of the home, when a mum feels supported, the whole family thrives.

You will find Melinda in the DCNMC space on Wednesdays. You can discover more about her offerings here